Как я встретил Новый 2014 год

Новый год я встречал со своей семьей...

В первые минуты Нового 2014 года я достал дочке Даше подарки... (в Деда Мороза она уже не верит)

Это я с дочкой Дашей

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Теща, жена Лариса, дочь Даша

Потом мы пошли на улицу, запустили фейверк и зажгли бенгальские огни...

У нас в С-Петербурге 1 января 2014 года было +4 градуса

С соседями...

Соседи подарили дочке экономическую игру  "Монополия" и мы с ней 2 дня в нее играли - было тихо и спокойно...

2 января 2014 года выпал очень мелкий снег, мы с дочкой пошли гулять на спортивную площадку около речки...

Серия сообщений "семья":

статьи, публикации о семье

Часть 1 - Инструкция молодой жене
Часть 2 - Чего хотят мужчины
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Часть 30 - Как мы делали пиццу...
Часть 31 - Чудесные, солнечные и трогательные работы художника-иллюстратора Паскаля Кемпиона.
Часть 32 - Как я встретил Новый 2014 год

BLAGUE DU JOUR 1 : Mort alitée Un corbeau est perché sur un arbre, à ne rien faire de toute la journée. Un petit lapin repère le corbeau et lui demande : - Moi aussi, j'aimerais m'asseoir comme toi, et ne rien faire de toute la journée ? - Bien sûr, pourquoi ne pourrais-tu pas ? Le lapin s'assoit alors par terre sous l'arbre et reste là à se reposer. Quand tout à coup, un renard apparaît, se jette sur le lapin et le dévore. Moralité : Si vous voulez rester assis à ne rien faire, mieux vaut être très haut placé.

When there is a negative situation that you cannot change, Focus your thoughts and energy elsewhere. When there is a pain that will not go away, Overwhelm it with an even greater amount of joy. It serves no useful purpose to get mired in despair over things you cannot control. It makes much more sense to do the very best, to achieve the very most, With those things you do control. You can choose where to focus your energy and attention. Focus on those areas where you can have a powerful positive impact. Yes, it can be easy to get caught up in the negativity of the moment. Yet it also can be surprisingly easy to shift your focus toward the positive, Productive things you can do. You are never obligated to be miserable. If you really want to contribute to life, Set your sights on the value you're able to create. Don't despair over the darkness that is beyond your control. Instead, shine your own light so brightly that the darkness is overwhelmed.

The first step to prevent emotional abuse is to spot the signs. Often in a relationship you tend to overlook certain aspects of your partner that may in due course of time become unhealthy and pose to be a threat for you. According to psychologists, the initial sign of emotional abuse might be something in the pit of the stomach, a feeling suggesting that something is going wrong in your relationship. 1. Don't let your partner dominate you It all starts with your partner taking decisions for you and controlling your life by using abusive techniques. There becomes a power imbalance in your relationship and your partner makes you feel like a victim more than a spouse. When you begin to notice such signals, it is better to address the situation there and then instead of prolonging it to another time. Seek help from family, friends or therapist as and when required. 2. Beware of gaslighting This is a form of mental abuse where you doubt your memory, perception and sanity. Known to be a subtle form of emotional abuse, it is quite damaging in reality. Some common examples would be that you always apologise, even for insignificant errors or you know that there's something terribly wrong but you can't express it. 3. Bring up the issue in a calm environment Never throw down an accusation in the midst of a heated argument - it is the perfect recipe for disaster. Instead look for a convenient time. Do not start accusing your partner, instead leave room for a healthy discussion. 4. Seek help from family or friends Having a trusted friend or a family member who can evaluate the situation and help you out is a great option. It will be easier to solve issues when you have some support with you. 5. Look for a professional If your situation is completely out of hand, or you have nobody to ask for help - look for a therapist to bring you out of this state. Whether you want to stay in the relationship or not, it is very important to see a professional so that you can focus on healing your wounds and move forward. 6. Break the cycle It is important to realise that you need to stop being the victim when in an emotionally abusive relationship. Be wary of allowing yourself to be abused by someone else. If you see yourself falling into a victim-like situation with your partner, stop immediately and take charge of your life.

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